I was watching "How To Lose a Guy in 10 Days" the other night and it really got me thinking about all the "How To" checklists and articles I have read on how to GET and KEEP the guy. I couldn't recall many on how to GET and KEEP the girl. So I started writing down a few things on what it is us girls want and started a checklist of my own.
I have heard guys say that women are difficult to understand, But I couldn't disagree more. Well....okay, one week out of the month, i'll agree with you, we can be a little needy and a bit moody, but the other 3 weeks out of the month we are uncomplicated and quite adorable.
Almost every girl has bribed, begged and pleaded with her guy to watch some romantic movie with them. GUYS..if you stopped complaining and rolling your eyes for 3 seconds, you would realize, that what a girl wants is for you to say and do the ridiculously corny and over the top things in these movies! Why else would we want you to watch it!?!?!? DUHH!!! Now, I'm not saying that you need to be my Noah Calhoun and build me my dream home and write me a letter every day for 365 days. Or turn into a vampire and be my Edward Cullen.....but the guys in these movies are confident in their feelings and will go to any extreme to tell their girl that. Relationships do take work and you definitely need to put effort into the girl and in return she should do the same! But a lot of the time it's the "little things" that mean so much!
So with all that being said here is the list that I started! Ladies, your mission if you choose to accept, is to comment on this blog and add to the list. I think between all of us we can have a super awesome list in no time for all those eligible bachelors out there just waiting to win us over.
1. Good morning/goodnight texts
2. Communication!!!! Tell her how you feel
3. Really long hugs
4. A hoodie with his scent all over it
5. Surprises, especially little ones
6. Be positive
7. Be respectful....nothing is more sexy than a gentleman
8. Pictures taken together
9. Deep conversations AND
10.....funny converstations too
11. Dancing in the rain